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Can’t sleep? Do this, not that!

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By Patrick Murray  |  Jun 28, 2013
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One of the first things sleep physicians tell insomnia patients is to get out of bed if you can’t sleep. The worst thing you can do when you can’t fall asleep is lie in bed and attempt to force yourself to sleep. But you can’t do anything that’s stimulating or in violation of the basic rules of sleep hygiene. So what do you do?

Do This

Indulge in a low impact hobby: Do you play a musical instrument, knit or like to draw? All of these activities can be low impact and perfect for when you cannot sleep. Whenever you find yourself ready to nod off, stop what you’re doing and go to bed.

Not That

Quality screen time: Netflix, Hulu and a boatload of apps may entertain you but won’t help you fall asleep. Computers, smartphones, televisions and tablets emit blue light, which can reset your circadian clock and make your body think that it is time to be awake.  Late-night screen time is one of the most common sleep hygiene violations.

Do This

Read Something Boring: Maybe you have a book or magazine you’ve been meaning to read, but instantly lose interest the moment you read half a page. Now is finally the time to learn about the intricacies of legislative process or attempt James Joyce’s Ulysses… or crack open that mildly amusing collection of short stories you’ve been meaning to read.

Not That

Read Something Thrilling (or at Least Semi Interesting): Remember that chapter in Game of Thrones where everybody dies? Whatever you do, do NOT read that when you cannot sleep. Don’t read the latest page turner by Dan Brown. If you’re interested in politics or baseball, don’t read about either subject. And remember, don’t do it on a backlit electronic device!

Do This

Low Impact Chores: When was the last time you mopped the floor or picked up clutter around your home? As long as you do these at a relaxed pace and don’t work up a sweat, you may find yourself ready to fall asleep in no time. Just don’t make too much noise.

Not That

Exercise: There’s a common misconception that you can tire yourself out by exercising. While this could hold true for daytime exercise, doing even moderate exercise in the nighttime is akin to drinking a big cup of coffee. Exercise at night and you will not sleep.

What do you do when you cannot sleep? Share your tips in the comments section below:


  1. 1 Tem 11 Jul
    It is currently 5 in the morning and I’ve been trying to sleep since 10. I’m at my wits end and I just want to get a decent amount of sleep at a normal time. :(
  2. 2 Donna Grace 15 Jun
    I turn to human beings also at any time i want to, and am one of the most dreaded men in my country. I became a vampire through the help of my friend who introduced me into a vampire kingdom by giving me their email. if you want to become a powerful vampire kindly contact the vampire kingdom
  3. 3 Laur 29 May
    Household chores, although low impact, are exactly what take so much time that I am unable to lie down at night, many times not until 6 or 7 AM. I start the housework about 1:30 AM. I wish I started and ended it earlier, so thst I could go to bed.
  4. 4 T Johnson 15 May
    I have been like this for over 20 years. I rarely dream, I sleep like crap. I got a Galaxy fit watch earlier this year and shows I barely get any REM sleep, ever..  Do I have some sort of disorder? This can't be normal can it?  My wife has the most vivid dreams, she even says she can control things in her dreams and can go back into a dream if she wakes up..  I would just like to have a dream that I can remember.. Just once in while..  I did when I was a kid, all the time..
  5. 5 Monkeyjoe518 15 Apr
    I have sleeping pills but I’m scared I’ll get hooked
  6. 6 Mariam :D 10 Apr
    I literally didn't sleep until now I don't sleep at night and sleep in the morning And sometimes when I'm tired at night I just cannot sleep and it's annoying me ALOT can anyone PLS help me literally feels like hell
  7. 7 Antonietta 25 Mar
    My daughter is also having a deficulty in sleeping. So i told her to sleep early maybe around 7pm,and after 3hrs.she did not felt asleep.can someone give me advice?
  8. 8 Klarissa 16 Mar
    Well, everytime at night, I try to go sleep, and it usually takes 1 or 2 hours or more, then i go on my tablet if im not tired, then the next day, (since i have 4wks off of school -covid 19)I always wake up early,and tired! Please help me find a way to help me sleep faster, and wake up a bit later, it doesnt matter what time as long as its at least, before 45 minutes Thank you😉
  9. 9 American Academy of Sleep Medicine 28 Feb
    Hi Lilian, Your behaviors during the day, and especially before bedtime, can have a major impact on your sleep. This page includes a list of healthy sleep habits that can improve your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
  10. 10 Lilian 27 Feb
    I am currently 13 and cant remember the last time i had i good nights sleep. I stay up all night doing homework (at least 2 pages per class{i have 5-8 classes}) and am always tired in the middle of class and the whole day. Is there any way to help me fall asleep faster than these maybe in 10 minutes or less? Someone please help.
  11. 11 Olivia 21 Feb
    I’ve struggled with insomnia for years now.. I’ve tried medicine after medicine after medicine and nothing seems to help. I’ve tried forcing myself to sleep but it just causes me to have anxiety. I have anxiety and depression and I’m not sure if that affects my sleep, but I would love to just be normal and be able to lay my head down and sleep. 
  12. 12 Meh 12 Oct
    job market saturated programmer by trade, had to move back to grannie after a hostile roommate wrecked my life... she likes to speak to me and spread out interuptions as long as she can... started staying up a couple hours later cause sleeping her 8-6 schedule was horrible for getting work done and i desperately needed alone time where i wasnt being interupted if i don't code i don't make money she constantly wakes me in mornings often she drops something 3 or 4 times loud enough to make me spring outof bed, sleep would need to lay back down and catch up to have enough focus to work started growing laterand later into day it used to loop around and reset nowshe gets me up at 3pm taunts me with a good afternoon been losing sleep now, 3 days and something has crashed enoough to make mr jump out of bed upon falling asleep been too tired to write suitable code forced myself to bed early desperate for sleep 2 nights despite being tired body remembers slipping to 4am sleep schedule and cant do it now im at 5 nights with complete sleep loss I cant focus and thattired feeling in my head has slipped to the rest of my body and i now have a splitting headache not getting work done again too delerious , if i tell her i cant sleep or cant work under these conditions she just grumbles all my fault angrily like im abusing her my work isnt getting done not enough money to get away and wide awake dunno how i can work and get proper sleep cant get enough distance from stupid all thats on my mind all day now is sleep and when she goes to bed it doesn't come to  me anymore less I try to sleep a time shes going to interupt an hour or two later, projects have been at complete stand still because shes too stupid to listen coming Monday shes going to remember i promissed to take her to ear doctor she remembers her schedule so not dementia just discourteous driving me to dementia though memory has gotten super short feel like my mind is lost as hers should be completely distressed and dont know what to do, considered knocking myself out with a brick because need to sleep is outweighing the risk now but im reading elsewhere being knocked out isnt the same and sedation doesn't work.other roommates ive had would keep TV on loud and cackle at it all night and i could sleep through that insomnia doesnt come natural for me just when this one is groaning one lil thing is out of place or dropping plates and bottles while their making breakfast, desperately need sleep desperately need work too cant have both with them help!
  13. 13 Jennifer 09 Oct
    I've not sleep for about over three week now...had problems for about sleeping tablets..that worked for a long my body has got used to told me to come off them for 4 get them out of my system. ..I've done a few weeks trying over the counter stuff....they don't work...just have to ride to ride the storm...and see what happens...
  14. 14 Kristen Brooks 13 Aug
    Exercising does help you sleep well at least me aha PERIODT
  15. 15 Huntergal 28 Jul
    Try listening to nature sounds or any kind of sounds on youtube you might fall asleep faster that way you can finally wake up next morning and enjoy your day (and drink some water it helps me when i start falling asleep)
  16. 16 lisa 22 Mar
    i’m 16 and ever since i was a child the thought of ending my day and getting into bed gave me a pit in my stomach and i don’t know why! literally have tried everything - changing my sleep routine, melatonin, eating healthy, exercising during the day, u name it. every night i sleep later and later than the night before and i dropped out of school due to this problem for a while. then a friend of mine introduced me to a dab pen.... i was skeptical at first smoking weed but this has changed my life. for all you insomniacs this will put u right to sleep! i swear on this dab pen 
  17. 17 Shirley Brown 04 Mar
    Nice Post
  18. 18 Carrie 22 Feb
    I’ve only just found this article. I’m a 15 year old who hasn’t had decent sleep consistently since I was 7-8. I’ve been on high doses of melatonin and lots of therapy. My doctor has told me that “maybe you just don’t need sleep”, which I find highly unlikely since I’m tiered all of the time. But whenever my head hits the pillow, I’m wide awake. I, unfortunately, have anxiety and depression with symptoms of paranoia. Can someone please help?!
  19. 19 AASM 09 Jan
    Gabriel - Please talk to your doctor about your sleep problem. You also can contact an accredited sleep center ( or a behavioral sleep medicine provider ( Help is available.
  20. 20 Gabriel 07 Jan
    I havent slept in 5 days. Considering jumping off my roof. Its 1:41am, 5 doses of melatonin, three doses of nyquil and four doses of tussin and I’m laying here wide awake. I need a horse tranquilizer not this. 
  21. 21 Grace 03 Dec
    This is true!
  22. 22 Bo 21 Dec
    But my problem is that I can't sleep in! I have to get up so early on weekdays that if I ever have a holiday or weekend I automatically get up only about 10 minutes after the normal time. Still, on these days I stay up about an hour after usual, so I end up getting less sleep than usual!
  23. 23 Edd 22 Aug
    In your mind's eye - slowly draw a large cross using your favorite color. Top to bottom - left to right. Do not move your eyes.  Count each cross. You probably will not get to ten.  It works.
  24. 24 lucy 13 Jul
    i am going to trust you because all the websites i have been on have told lies so i hope this works will get back to you thank you - Lucy
  25. 25 Anna Turner 06 Mar
    That part about exercising isn't true. I start to have a panic/anxiety attack the moment I get in bed if I dont exercise. 
  26. 26 Tony 04 Jul
    I re-listen to audio books. Interesting enough to keep me from thinking much and boring enough to allow me to drift off to sleep.
  27. 27 Benjamin M 29 Jun
    I would like to see more information regarding amber colored lights and apps o remove blue from screens. I use them exclusively after 9pm and it has turned around years of insomnia! The F.Lux app for mac took care of the blue light from my computer so I can fall asleep watching movies.
  28. 28 greenscarab 30 May
    Melatonin, Sweetest dreams, Solgar brand. Cheap melatonin works one or two nights, But stops after that.This is the best brand I think...Source naturals are also good.
  29. 29 Rich 23 May
    Very good article, Ardith the UP you mentioned is great. I have the UP 24 and it has helped me keep track of my sleep and lack of sleep. However, I find when I can't sleep I can watch TV or play a game on laptop or IPad and within minutes I am starting to doze off. Since I was a child I always fell asleep to the TV
  30. 30 Mel 17 May
    I use a sleep app.  The soothing background sounds put me right to sleep!
  31. 31 Vi 16 May
    Good article with basic information. I would be interested in an article on improving sleep quality as well. When I can't sleep - which is frequently - I pretend that it's morning and get up and do all my normal morning chores. By the time I've both dressed and emptied the dishwasher I'm starting to fight a case of the yawns. So I go through my bedtime ritual all over again. Soothing hot shower and dose of melatonin included - I usually sleep really well the second part if the night. Whatever I do I have to be careful to make sure it isn't something that engages my brain or my imagination - the last thing I need are more runaway thought trains coming through my night! 
  32. 32 Jim Miller 18 Apr
    How can I increase deep sleep?
  33. 33 Marielle 11 Apr
    I get up and have some sleepy time tea. Also do deep breathing and use imagery. Usually I think of something beautiful I saw or something that was soothing.
  34. 34 Janan 14 Mar
    I understand about TV and the blue light but my remedy is twofold:  either C-Span with somebody droning on, or depending on the season, Nascar/football with the hypnotic sounds. I use a mask or hide under covers to avoid the light but hear the low sounds...Then presto!
  35. 35 Paula 14 Mar
    I agree w/not staying in bed and forcing yourself to sleep. It is very frustrating. Calming herbal tea helps me sometimes before I go to bed or if I wake too soon. I really enjoy the sleep app it helps me keep track of my nightly zzz's
  36. 36 Annamaria 17 Jan
    Great read. All your suggestions are very helpful

  37. 37 Julie 10 Jan
    I do a couple yoga sun salutations then a shoulder stand or some other inversion. It works like magic!
  38. 38 Barry 10 Jan
    Ambien works for me.  But then, I have a sleep disorder.
  39. 39 Dick 03 Jan
    At age 76 I can walk the treadmill at moderate pace and tire after short stroll and return to sleep 
    Different strokes for different folks.
  40. 40 Ardith 20 Dec
    All your GREAT articles really add to the fact the  UP. is the very best product like this out there. lpve the good ideas/bad ideas.....very belpful. MERRY CHRISTMAS!
  41. 41 Bridgett 13 Dec
    Simple, to the point and practical. Very helpful to offer things not to do, too. I often read to help, but I choose favorite books and stories. 
  42. 42 pvs prasad 10 Jul
    very happy to read the article and it is really useful for diabetic with partial osa.